Why is it that younger women can meet a good man and befriend him and be turned on by him yet go away?

It seem as if the younger the girl she wants the looker mr unavailable mr mystery. Yet she has a friend whom she can tell anything who flirts with her who is real with her and has heard her happy sad crying and supported her through it all. Who believes more then anything on this earth that she can do what ever she sets her mind too yet because she feels its not a love she knows because she doesnt have that oh my god i need him so bad feeling says i am not in love. I have explored every side of her and her of me yet after four years she still wants that dumb *** disney tale. Still goes for the games of the guy be unavailable yet women cling to notes stating how there are no good men. You know what i think? I think its bull spit and you just dont have the courage to admit that when you get a good man you walk away because your scared that maybe just maybe its what you need. Iam not saying iam a good guy hell iam probably an asshole but wake up and stop lying to yourselves girls. You cant keep these good guys waiting because eventually they change in to asses because how thats what the world show us will improve our chances. The being flirty the being bold with you women seem to assume this means hes a punk when honestly this makes no sense. Maybe the guy is so in to you he doesnt know what to do. Maybe he loves you more then anything and it scares the **** out of him. Maybe just maybe he knows what you respond too and thats why he pushes away because deep down he knows you will never love the good guy but will desire the *** and say he is complaining yet when a female does it is explaining?